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5万块钱就要交99,800的
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要报个课的
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我其实都不知道这些事情
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后来呢是他拿到了
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结果搞了个一年
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赚了上百万
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搞了几个工厂
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没花自己的钱
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有一次上台分享
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讲到了他的故事
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是什么原因呢
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原来他在那个工厂打工的时候
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上班赚了这么多年
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他手里都没存下10万块钱
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就总共就存了6万多块钱
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结果给我刷了接近5万
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就还剩了那一点点
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结果呢回去半夜
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没想到被他老婆怎么样告诉我
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被他老婆给发现了
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所以半夜啊就吵起来了
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他老婆也哭
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他也哭了
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他给他老婆说对不起
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我确实没跟你商量
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他老婆说你怎么可以这样
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咱们都这么难了
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你居然要交10万块钱给那个老师
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这个高总说亲爱的
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你跟我这么多年
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我没有给你想要的生活
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我觉得我愧对你
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我觉得我愧对你
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所以我觉得这个老师能帮我
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所以我才报了名
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就给他老婆一直沟通
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后来呢他老婆就被安抚了
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他老婆说那那你还差老师5万怎么办
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你答应老师
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下周就要给老师的
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你要做一个有信誉的人
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你要做一个有契约精神的人
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要么咱也不学了
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咱咱那5万咱也不要了
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你看行不行
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他说不我答应老师了
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周一晚款
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我周一辆给他
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他说那你怎么给
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他说我我找朋友借
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要么我就给老师说能不能缓几天
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我找银行再办一张信用卡
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他老婆说你不知你知不知道
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信用卡的手续费是很贵的
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他说那能贵多少
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说完两个都哭了
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最后他老婆说这样吧
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我支持你
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我妈在我这里还放了一点私房钱
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我借给你
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你给老师
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但是你以后得还我
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他在台上讲了这么一段故事
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泪流满面
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把现场同学感动哭了
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把我也感动哭了
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我每次看这一段视频
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我都会被触动哭
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后来在今年上半年
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有一次来上我课的时候
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这一次的核报他可能也会过来啊
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然后我说你好久不来复训了
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你来上老师的课呀
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啊老师现在忙啊
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谢谢你啊
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彻底你改变我人生轨迹啊
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在东莞然后他有一次跟我讲
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他说老师你知道吗
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我当时的那个在我
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我当时的那个工厂的老板
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你知道在干什么吗
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我说不知道
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他他现在在我这做车间主任
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哇这个世界真的是风水轮
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轮流转的哎
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你们觉得是不是
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是
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然后呢
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他
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在三年前
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他的老板经常说他
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小高啊你好好干啊
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啊现在他经常说他的老板老刘啊
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好好干
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别浪费原材料了
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要不是念着你
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想念想当年是我的老板我
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我要不是你都破产了
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我真不想让你在我这里
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真的你是不是还没放下
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你想当年老板的身份呢
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怎么跟你说你还不听呢
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他老板说不好意思
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不好意思
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高总不好意思
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我注意一下
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我想给你看看他现在的工厂
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一个员工什么都没有
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负债累累
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干了那么多年
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手里存款连5万都没有
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学陈老师的课都有效
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现在一年做8,000万产值
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一年随随便便赚1,000多万
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你们觉得还可以吗
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更重要的是
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一个普通的员工
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在今天他能做成这样子
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他是比你有钱吗
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不是他是比你有能力吗
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不是
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他是比你学历高吗
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不是他是比你有背景吗
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不是他比你有决心
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他下定决心要改变他自己的命运
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他对我有信心
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他对自己有决心
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他对他自己也有信心
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那么多人学了陈老师的课
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都拿到了
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结果为什么我是那个拿不到的一个
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不可能
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为什么别人行我不行
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我相信老师
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我相信我自己
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我一定可以
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我父亲我一定可以
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我不需要老师给我任何承诺
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我的决定就是我对我自己的承诺
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这就是骨子里对自己的那份信心
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来你们告诉我
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对还不对
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对
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所以你担心老师套路套路你
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我如果套路你
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我应该多套你一点
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我还套你29,900啊
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我也不差这点钱呢
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来你告诉我
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是还不是啊
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所以说
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来跟我说决心
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决定
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决定
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是你的决定改变你的命运
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是你的决心创造了你生命的奇迹
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不经过你的允许
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没有任何人可以成就你
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可以成交你
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可以帮到你
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各位对
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还不对对
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阻止你的是你自我设限的信念
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阻止你的是你这么多年
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不敢相信别人曾经被别人割过韭菜
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一年遭蛇咬
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十年怕草绳
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你知道吗
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在我人生最高光时刻的时候
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在我破产的日子里
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第一个提出分手的
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就是我当时的女朋友
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在我破产的时候
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她打电话给到我的公司的员工
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说你们几个月没发工资了
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员工说三个月没发了
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给我当时的总监姓张
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我当时的总监姓张
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然后说张总
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你们陈总多久没发工资了
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他快三个月了
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你觉得你们公司会怎么样
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不知道可能陈总快撑不住
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了反正他每天不回家
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他说我知道他没回家
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他每天都在办公室
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一晚上一晚上
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一坐坐一晚上
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估计估计我们公司是不行了
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但是但是他没有办法
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我也不会问他要钱
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我的工资可以不要了
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但我要陪伴他
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在公司最结束的那一刻
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我不会我不会离开他的
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然后我当时的女朋友说你这个傻瓜
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行我知道了
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我会离开他的
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然后晚上给我谈到夜里两点半
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又哭又闹又吵
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让我把我名下唯一的一套
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有房产证的房子
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过到他的名下
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让我的车子过到他的名下
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同时说你跟我这么多年
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你没给我幸福的婚姻
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你啥都没有
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你一堆负债
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我们没法再走下去了
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你现在所有一切都没了
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你还负债啊
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这好几百万
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我没有办法
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所以我们各自安好吧
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我说可以
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那你不觉得你应该给我一点补偿吗
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我说那你想要什么补偿
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最起码得有青春损失费吧
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在一起三四年了
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我说那你想怎么样
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你给我打个60万的欠条
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等你有了之后再还我
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你最起码有个凭证
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有个约定
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我说行那一刻我还怕什么
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我想我负债几百万了
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我还差这个吗
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我给他打了一个欠条
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青春损失费
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签字过了不到两个月
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把我告了
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卧槽居然法院还支持
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他还赢了
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因为你亲自打的呀
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你亲自按的手艺啊
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你亲自认的呀
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所以我在还债主的日子里
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还要还当时的前任女朋友
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因为他曾经也是一个债主
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所以在那个日子里
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我我曾经一度不再相信感情
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不再一度相信女人
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我觉得好狠
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为什么可以这样
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所以我告诉自己
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我说我不会轻易结婚
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我告诉自己
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我再也不相信任何一个女人
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为什么身边这样的人会在伤害我
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后来当我学习
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当我成长
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当我自我疗愈的时候
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后来我才发现
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这一切我都不抱怨
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为什么呢
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因为我告诉自己
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只有自己强大了
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所有问题都不是问题了
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为什么因为那也许是老天成就我
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给我的礼物
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我想如果没有当时破产的经历
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就没有今天我的强大
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就没有今天我做教育培训
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能够给你们服务的基础
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如果没有当时的破产
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负债累累
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就没有今天我在这里讲这段故事
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今天在这里讲这个故事
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居然还能拿出来讲
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还能卖点钱
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来告诉我
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对还不对
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来请问好事还是坏事啊
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好事幸亏他跟我分手了
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因为我们在吵架的时候都在打压我
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你这个王八蛋
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你以为你会火是吧
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说是你以为你将来会很有钱是吧
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我说是你放心
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你敢对不起我
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我会整死你
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我会让你身败名裂
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当说完那句话的时候
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内心好恐怖
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然后我就觉得
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哎呀
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哪一天如果我破产了
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他一定会第一个离开我
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后来我发现人的想法很可怕的
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因为我想我哪一天万一破产了
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我靠当我有了这个念念头妈
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没过多长时间
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果然他妈破产了
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我想万一我破产了
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他会不会第一时间离开我
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果然他是第一个离开我
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比我的员工离开我还要快
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所以请小心你的想法
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请小心你的念头
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你不好的想法
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不好的念头会发生在你的身上
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你积极正面的想法
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你积极正面的念头
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也会发生在你的身上
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因为这个世界就是你相信的样子
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你们告诉我对不对对
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所以当你经历这种创伤
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你还会轻易迈进另一段情感吗
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可是我不会受到影响
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我是一个一边破碎一边复原的人
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所以当我遇到我现在的爱人的时候
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我把所有财产
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几乎所有都在她名下
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我买的车子
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我买的房子
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我买的别墅
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我的存款
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绝大多数都在她这里
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为什么我选择相信
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我选择相信
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我不能把另外一个女人对我的伤害
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算在她的头上
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我对她防备
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我对她顾虑