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这不好说啊
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怕就怕动了啥
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不是动了贪念
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动了真情
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对了好了
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各位直接告诉你们吧
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第一要想负债翻转
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第一不要再借钱了
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不要再贷款了
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就从此绝不再借钱贷款做生意否则
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你会越陷越深
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雪球越滚越大
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你的压力山大的时候
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有一天你会崩了
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所以负债怎么翻转
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核心原因就是在于先找清
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找到先搞清楚
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你之前做了什么导致了你负债的
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然后如果你是赌博
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戒掉如果你是创业导致的
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暂时不要创业了
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停止
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就是做好准备
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学习之后
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如果投资导致负债的
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不要投资了
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因为你的投资把钱越投越少了
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你被你家的财富不仅没有保值增值
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结果还贬值了
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还负债了
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这是最大的问题
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所以第一个不要借钱贷款做生意
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因为一个人越想越在负债的状态下
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往往越想快点把负债干嘛还掉
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来告诉我
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对还不对
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对我告诉你
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来给我说
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快就是慢
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快就是慢
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越着急
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越着急
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越容易出问题
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越容易出问题
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越会乱了阵脚
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越会乱了阵脚
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我告诉你
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在负债状态下
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如果你很着急
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如果你很心急
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我告诉你
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往往你再次做的决策
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十之八九是又是错的
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因为你没有冷静下来
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因为你没有安静下来
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因为你没有心定下来
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那个时候你的心很浮浮躁
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很急躁所以你不够静
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所以叫定能生慧
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静能生会
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你要静你要定在第一个
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你不要借钱
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不要再贷款做任何生意了
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止步
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止损
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第二步
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写上不要告诉任何人你已经负债
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拍拍旁边肩膀
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给我说句
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话不要告诉任何人
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你已经负债
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你们犯的最大的错误
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就是
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你太真诚
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你太真实
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你生怕身边的人不知道你就负债
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这个世界太可怕了
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就是绝大多数人更喜欢的是锦上添花
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还是雪中送炭
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锦上添花
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那么当你告诉别人你负债了
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当你告诉别人你没钱了
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当你告诉别人你负债累累了
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我跟你说实话
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有的时候你连些朋友都没了
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我在我负债的日子里
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我请我最亲密的一些朋友吃饭
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他们不敢来
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因为后来我明白了
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因为他们怕跟我见面
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我又找他们借借钱
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所以
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不要告诉任何人
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你处在负债的状态
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不要告诉任何人
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这个世界没有真相
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没有假象
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你给别人传递的真相
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他即是真相
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他也是印象
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来给我说
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印象即是事实
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对
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就是一个男人呢
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他有家暴行为
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你看了有一个电影
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韩国的叫什么名我忘了
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他是家暴倾向
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但是他在追这个女人的时候
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他表现的是个暖男
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他表现的是个好好男人
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他表现的好殷勤
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他表现的好爱好呵护
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结完婚之后
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他的本身面目露出来了
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那我想告诉你的是
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如果结婚之前
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他不给这个女人传递的是那种印象
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而且是结婚之后的印象
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他根本追都追不到
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来告诉我是不是这个道理
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因此
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印象即是事实
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就是印象即是别人内心当中的事实
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你给别人是一个成功者的印象
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有钱人的印象
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然后创业成功的印象
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而不是创业失败的印象
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你是一个很负责任的男人的印象
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你是一个很友善很友好
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的人的印象
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当你传递了更多这样的印象的时候
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你才能吸引别人对你的认同信任好感
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支持
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你们觉得对不对
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因为这个世界很多人很现实
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现实到
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他总是想找到身边那些有钱的人
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成功的人去连接
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因此你为什么不能给别人
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变换成你是成功者的形象
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你是有钱人的形象呢
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拍拍旁边肩膀跟我说人生如戏
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人生如戏
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全凭演技
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全凭演技
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就就
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就人生人生就几十年
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我跟你说
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就3万多天
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我告诉你
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你我都是来地球上旅游来的
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真的
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所以我就想南上南南极旅游一下
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跟着我的师傅去游一下
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不游下次啥时候游
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不知道地球是几亿年的生命了
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你我只是地球的过客
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你告诉我对不对
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对地球是几亿年了
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你我在地球上
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最多来这里旅游100多多多年
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而且很多人都在这里旅游的时间
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已经旅游了1/3了
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你还有2/3的时间
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我也是咱们就来到地球上玩一圈
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旅游一圈
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咱们就走了
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上另外一个地方去了
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另外一个地方在哪里
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我没去过
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因为去了回不来
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你也没去
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但是我告诉你
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你我如果去了那里
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在这里我没服务好你
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在那里我继续给你开课
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讲天堂商业模式
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哈哈哈我到那里成交你
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天堂核爆思维我告诉你哈哈哈
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且到了那里他又不花人民币
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他花什么币
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假币
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冥币你咋知道的
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哈哈哈
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我要告诉大家的是
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我们是不是都是来地球来玩来了对
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是不来旅游来了
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是
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不就100100多年吗
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所以这个世界没有人体会你的痛苦没
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有人体会你的艰难
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没有人体会你的伤
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体会你的痛
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所以你要懂得自我疗伤
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你要懂得自我疗愈
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你要好好爱自己
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不要想不开
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人生就这几十年
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有什么想不开的
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心大了事就小了
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心小了事就大了
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因为创业失败
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要死要活
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因为女人移情别恋
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要死要活
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因为别人伤害
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因为别人欺骗
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要死要活
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根本不值得
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一个男人此生活得通透
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最核心的方法就是
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第一买一块墓地
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想不开的时候坐在那里
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他妈的多大点事
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早晚还得到这里来
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所以男人开悟只有两条路
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第一
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负债一次
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第二埋好墓地
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这真的真真正正负债过一次的人
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才知人间之冷暖
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所以我告诉你
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这个世界绝大多数人真的都没活明白
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所以说你不要太当真
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第一负债是假象
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我待会告诉你为什么负债是假象
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第二个
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不要告诉任何一个人
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你处于负债的状态
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因为你告诉了他
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他可能会告诉很多他身边的人
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而他身边的人有可能是你的朋友
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所以其实没必要
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你不用不用告诉别人
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就是你告诉别人就在
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等于告诉别人远离你
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就是告诉别人不要帮你
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就是告诉别人不要借钱给你
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不要给你链接资源
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因为你是一个暂时处于负债的状态
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就像就等于是
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别人感觉你暂时处于人生的低谷
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自暗时刻
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而不是高光时刻
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你们说对还不对
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对你干嘛这么实在呢
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所以从此之后
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不要再告诉任何人你处于负债状态
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各位好不好
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好
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来再调查一下
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你暂时处于负债状态的请举
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手你还举手
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我把手给你剁了
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哈哈哈
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我告诉你了
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不要告诉任何人
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你还举手
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我是亿万富翁
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对啊
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掌声鼓励一下
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好
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你不说谁知道啊
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哈哈哈
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是不是啊
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对
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同意的请举手
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好手放下
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暂时处于负债状态的请举手
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再举手手指头给你切掉
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哈哈哈
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这有一个同学
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还还还还想举
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还想往上举
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这刚好想举
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右手给他按下去了
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因为左脑和右脑不同步
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你知道吗
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可能他没有负债
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啊
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可能他没有负债
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你说他是自己给自己开玩笑
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没事他没负债
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他老是这么举
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很快就负债了
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哈哈哈
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你们说对还不对啊
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我告诉你
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这个世界真的很恐怖的
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你不要告诉别人啊
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第二步永远不要告诉别人
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你处于什么负债的状态
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这是第二步
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第三步绝对要创业